In(ner) Tuition

There is a strange idea that to be able to get to a point where you are happy or “enlightened” (see note below) you must follow someone else, or listen to the words of a holy man or woman, or follow rules. Anything like that, unless it makes you completely happy, is not going to help really. If it is that you enjoy being a follower of such and such a guru because you like being associated with their charity work, do some of your own charity work and it will feel ten times better. If you honestly truly believe that they have the answer you are looking for, and that if you follow their ideas and teachings you will wake up one morning happier, more joyful, more ecstatic than you ever have been, then good luck with that. I hope you aren’t paying them any money.

Essentially, when you go looking for outside input on this topic, you are assuming that you know nothing about it, or at least that they know more about it than you. But think about it, you are there, they are there. They are telling you things, and you are understanding them, maybe even agreeing with them. Maybe you’re even thinking “this is what I have always thought”. ANd yet you continue to go back to them.

If they impinge upon your existence in any form, it is because they are a reflection of you. The human being cannot pick up anything that is not a part of them, or a part of their creative pool, shall we say. When they tell you something, and you agree with it, it is because you already knew it anyway. Any idea that you find a common ground with is an idea that you have already thought a thousand times, but not yet found a way to describe.

And so when you go looking for a teacher, what you find is someone that is a reflection of a part of you (because you cannot attract anything that is not on the same frequency as yourself) telling you things that you already know, and probably already understand.

A lot of people nowadays have forgotten a lot of what they already know, which is why it sounds and feels like new information. But notice, the next time you get that feeling, where that feeling is coming from. It does not come from the usual, thinking part of the brain, it comes from front of the head. It is a feeling of connection to knowledge. Oftentimes, by the time you have heard the bit you already knew, your conscious brain is onto the next thing and so you don’t have time to correctly process it. This is why connecting to the infinite knowledge that exists in the higher vibrations can be useful. It is a way to turn on the hose of knowledge without having to worry about the brain stepping in to veto and audit all the information.

You may notice that turning on and tuning into you intuition feels a bit like remembering. That is how it works. There is no time boundary on intuition. You can manouveur yourself up and down the time line. Going back on the time line is what is called by most people “memory”. Going forward into the future is “precognition”. But they are both aspects of intuition. The only issue rises when people are told that can’t possibly remember the future, because it hasn’t happened yet.

In reality, there is only the moment here and now. That is all. ANything that has happened previously is happening right now on a parallel line, as is anything that is about to happen. Anything that is going to happen to you is chooseable, based on how you feel, what you want, what you are vibrationally in tune with etc. From moment to moment you have a whole new opportunity to change everything around you. It is just a matter of deciding where you want to be and how you want to feel. To quote the movie Vanilla Sky “Every moment is a whole new chance to turn it all around”

So, choose wisely my friends. Most of all choose Joyfully. Let yourself be taught by your inner (higher) self. Bigme knows what s/he is doing. Trust that, and all else is yours for the taking.

Anton

(We don’t understand why people are still chasing enlightmenment. Enlightenment is the state that you are in constantly. It is just that you don’t realise that that is what enlightenment is. Everyone is constantly waiting for Enlightenment to start an explosion of light and a thousand angels singing from on high. Enlightenment is YOU! Already! Right Now! Stop looking for it.)

On Soul Mates

We should like to speak to you on the subject of Soul Mates, or what you may know as “Twin Flames”.

Finding your “other half”, by which we mean your soul mate, what you have occasionally termed “twin flame”, “Soul companion” or “heart companion” is incredibly beneficial. We do not mean to say that it is mandatory, or even necessary to find this other part of yourself, but when you do (and if you are wanting it for the right reasons it will come) you will find that it enriches every area of your life. When you find this other person you will find that it is difficult to go in any direction that is not joyful. You will find that even just spending time in each other’s company and energy will seem to be the most fulfilling and satisfying part of your day.

When you find this “other half” essentially, you are finding the person that is closest to you vibrationally in terms of the oversoul, or Bigme. Each different strand of your individual lines of potential twine together like vines, and spiral around each other, each strengthening and supporting the path of the other.

Many of you seem stuck to this notion that you are worthless without this twin flame relationship. We feel it important to tell you that this is not so. Whether you find the one who resonates most strongly with your own vibration or not, it does not affect your individual actions, and as long as you follow your own happiness and excitement you cannot possibly be doing anything wrong. But for those of you who feel that they cannot operate correctly in their lives without their soul mate we offer these words as a guide to finding them.

Follow your own happiness and excitement.

Your soul mate can only be vibrationally attuned to the feeling that will exist when you are both together. That is what you are each following and looking for. So sitting alone and pining for someone that has not yet entered your life (believe us, you would know if they were there. There would not be a moment’s hesitation) is fruitless, and what is more, is actually counter-productive. Imagine the idea of a motorway or highway. You want to head to London for example. To do this, you would join the road that leads in that direction. As would all the other cars who wish to get there. Sitting at a petrol station 20 miles away wishing you were in London is not going to get you there. You need to join the road and head in the direction of where you want to be. And trust us when we say that anyone you are hoping to find that will enrich your life and give you the joy that you are seeking, will not be heading in the opposite direction, or find themselves sitting in the same petrol station miles away from their path. (The chance is always there, but the chances are better if you get on the road to where you want to be)

Finding the soul mate connection should not be done as an end to itself. If that is all you are wanting, you are asking for something that serves only you. And while this is absolutely not a problem if that is all you are looking for, your other half is not attuned to serving you, they are attuned to doing their life’s work, and finding a connection here on this plane of existence that will make the experience that much sweeter.

The ideal “feeling” that we think would help to align yourself with is this. Your “twin flame” partner will not be a slave, they will not bow to your whim, they will not do as you tell them and come when you call. They will be themselves and carry out the work they wish to carry out. And if you happen to be able to travel down the road together, that is excellent. That is all that there is to it. It is not ownership, or even partnership. It goes much deeper than that. It is two individuals who have found a companion that strengthens their resolve and helps them in their work, in whatever fashion. Each contributes and each receives in equal measure. It is a relationship built on two people who are already one. Not upon one person finding someone else, or two people becoming a couple. They are already connected, and so simply find it of benefit to return to their state of oneness. Through this return to oneness they find the strength they need comes easier and their ambition grows. They find that the universe appears to bend to their whim and present them with countless opportunities for growth and betterment. It is the walking of an ecstatic path, and knowing that someone is walking beside you. That is the twin flame connection.

So, knowing this, we would like to say that whether or not you are yet on speaking terms with your soul partner, they are still out there. And more importantly, they are still vibrationally attuned to you and your best self, your ideal self, your Bigme. They are still waiting for you, but if you are not heading towards Bigme, you are missing them. They are out there, it’s just a matter of heading towards the person you will be when you meet them and your life together will begin.

Study the picture of your Big life. Look for what there is in there that could help you navigate towards your other half. They will not come to you, and you will not go to them. But on your path, as you pursue your Bigwork, your roads will meet and run side by side, and you will find each other whilst pursuing your own goals. If you want that connection, that connection will be found while you are on your way to happiness, to the future and towards Bigyou.

A little update.

Hello my friends,

Many apologies for the lack of updates over the last 8 months. It has been a difficult time and as with all things, some tasks get priority and some must be put on the back burner, as we say. I have had very little time to be in contact with Bigme, but as it stands the time for reconnection has arrived. There will be many more updates (well, more than there have been this year) and hopefully much more work done. Looking back on the last post, i see that i was not wrong about 2010 being a year of Big Changes.

But enough of that, on to more pressing matters. Much has happened, and much has changed. These pages will be undergoing a small redesign, and for those of you that intend to keep up, i will be posting a lot more regularly. Having taken in a great deal of information during this hiatus, I have remembered a lot of things that Bigme already knows, and I’m not in a position to be able to pass them on, both for my benefit and yours.

Much Love to you all.

Anton

We interrupt this series for a couple of notes…

Firstly, to all of you reading this, and those around you who don’t, i wish you all a happy and abundant new year. The last 12 months have been a period of change and upheaval, in order that things can settle into forms and structures that will make the coming times a little easier to handle.  We are facing one of the most exciting and positive times in recent history, and 2009 was sort of like a tutorial level of how things are going to go.

The next twelve months will be fun and exciting, i have no doubt. I cannot wait to see what they will bring. To those of you with whom i will share some of this time, i am greatly anticipating it, and waiting patiently to see where we are heading.

The energies are shifting insuch a way that there will be a mass awakening of many people. Those who have been teetering on the edge will be transformed completely before the year is out, and those who are still not ready to leave the old energy behind will find the help and assistance they will need to get through whatever they must. Above all bear in mind that whatever this coming year may bring, it is for your greatest benefit. There is no need to worry or be frightened.

Those who have been scared to open themselves up for fear of failure or ridicule will find that what they have believed all along becomes generally accepted and understood as “the truth”.  Scary things don’t seem quite so scary when we face them together and face them we will. With smiles and joy on our faces and in our hearts.

Creativity will blossom and there will be a mass outbreak of sanity and compassion. This will seem weird for a while, but don’t worry. This, like all things, is just a transition. 2010 will be the year of the artist and the writer, the sculptor and the painter, the journey(wo)man and the shaman. The introspective period is coming to and end, now is the time for us to put forth the lessons we have been learning in whatever form we can. Those who can, will build models of the inner and outer universe so profound that we will seem to evolve in a matter of weeks, dropping the old and disabling energy of the past and building our own structures and frames, with which we ca create the world we want to be a part of. No longer will we be required to toe the line or play by someone elses rules. This is the year when the only rules we will have to follow are the ones we agree upon together. No longer will we sweat for the profit and sole benefit of others. It truly is the beginning of the era of co-creation.

2010 is the year that we will look back on as a great turning point for the entire planet. It is the year when conscious co-creation will become commonplace, and people will spend their energy building the world(s) they wish to live in.  We will learn how to tune ourselves in to the divine within us all and follow the joy that we feel every day. It will be the only possible way to live as we move forward.

Make a wish right now. Wish for something you have been told is unattainable, something you have dreamed of but never felt the courage to follow up on. This is the year that we learn how to make our dreams into real-ity.

I wish you love, light and happiness this year, and the years to come. May you walk in peace with the souls you choose to accompany you, and may all your experiences bring you closer to your true, infinite self.

Peace, LOVE and Abundance to you my friends.

Antonx

The Most Important Principles – Compassion

Compassion is the highest virtue, we believe. It is only with compassion that anyone helps anyone in trouble. Compassion is the fertile ground from which good deeds grow, and from which understanding and tolerance also sprout. With compassion, it is impossible to harbour any ill will towards another person. You may not feel love for them, but compassion is not about even liking the person. Comapssion is the ability to see past the words, deeds and ideas of an individual and to see in them their own higher self.

Seen through the eyes of compassion, all men and women are truly equal. From a viewpoint of compassion, your “Bigme” connects with theirs, and you see in each other the highest and greatest achievments, despite what they may be like as “littleme”. It allows each one of us to see that man or woman for what they are. It is all too easy to forget that everyone here sharing this experience, works towards the same goal. They want to be happy. That is all. They want to be happy in their lives, in their work and with the people around them. It just so happens that “littleme” is not always the best judge of what will make them happy. We have been led to believe that items and products will bring us the happiness we are searching for, when all it requires is that we ask Bigme for help.

Something that is true of every single individual is that there is nothing outside of them that will make them as happy as they hope to be. The happiness they seek is in peace and calm. In quieting the mind and finding the souls purpose. It is only with a quiet mind and an opened heart that the soul can real-ise what it is that it needs to be happy, and that is to follow bigme.

Compassion allows you to see past littleme. It is the highest virtue simply because it allows you to connect correctly with another individual, and see them for what they truly are. You are not the skin and skeleton that carries your heart and mind, but rather you are your heart and mind trying to empower the body to carry out the work that you are here to accomplish. Compassion is like x-ray glasses. It lets you see past the shell of a man or a woman, and see the heart and mind and purpose within. It enables you to connect to the source within them and see that there is in fact no difference between the both of you. It demands that you remember where you both came from and for what purpose.

Any time you come up against a problem situation or purpose in your life, where you feel as though you cannot even begin to accept another person’s behaviour towards you, whatever it might be that they have done, it is an opportunity for you to learn a valuable lesson. They are not the words, the fists or the blows that may have hurt you. Those are the by products of the heart and mind attempting to be happy, being misrepresented by the body and emerging incorrectly. Compassion allows you to see what the person is truly like, and that all they want, like you, is to be happy. No matter how misguided they may be.

We are not suggesting that you should put yourself in harms way to prove this. We are simply asking that those of you who still hold grudges or ill feelings towards another individual look, not at littleme, but at Bigme. Look at the source within yourself, connect to the source outside yourself and see that there is no difference, only perception. The only harm that has occurred is the harm that you have allowed to manifest. It is not the actions that cause you pain and hurt, but your reaction and understanding of those actions.

Do not allow yourself to be a victim to your own ideas about someone elses intentions. You wrongly assume that their intent was to harm you for whatever reason. This is not true. They are only trying to be happy, as best as they can.

When you can forgive and move past these feelings, you will understand more the value and identity of Compassion.

The Most Important Principles – Patience

Many of you are at a point now where you feel as though you are on the brink of something huge and magnificent. Something truly life changing, that will pick you up out of the life you live right now and drop you into your ideal existence. As though your work can now truly begin for real, and you can start to be the wise and knowing master that you know you are. This is both true and false, for as much as it is correct that you are a master of all as yet not fully awakened, it is also true that you are not ready.

As much as this might be a slap in the face to you, there is nothing else to be said. And it is no bad thing. To be the master and conscious creator of your universe is a *HUGE* undertaking. It is astoundingly, staggeringly difficult. Some would have you believe that you have to simply accept that love is all that there is, and that in doing so you will unlock the secrets of the universe and we will all evolve into the next level and the universe will flower as it should. But there is an important point that has been overlooked. Love, as a word, is not enough. You must be (and by be, we mean that you must be composed completely and totally and only of) LOVE!

The word love has been thrown around so much over the last century that it no longer means what it needs to mean, for this to take place. The more the word is used, the less it connects with the people who need it to connect. As always, the vibration is more important than the word or the feeling. And this takes time. It is a process of finding that place within yourself and allowing the heart to speak to you and show you what this energy, this vibration, this power, feels like. The word has been hijacked almost, in an effort to present a challenge to those who would attempt to get to this place quickly. It requires dedication and sacrifice. However, there is nothing there except this vibration of higher love. It is a love that is not tainted by anything else, and it is the only kind that can bring the universe up to this higher vibration. This higher love will be the base vibration once we pass into the next stage of our collective path.

All can attain it, but it is only once you have given up fighting for it that you will even get close. If you do not have it, you must be it, if you cannot be it, you must be looking for it. If you cannot see it, you are not looking in the place where it will be. It will not be anywhere outside of you. It is in your heart space. Make your newer higher version of love resonate with the word love, rather than the love that you are used to. And have patience. Anything less, and higher love cannot exist. Higher love can only be itself. Anything else is something different.

All that being said, you are completely on your way. It is just a matter of being patient. You will get to where you need to be, and where you want to be exactly. It is just that things seem to be going slowly for you. You would like it if you were the highest and greatest you could be. But that would be a waste of time. There would be no fun in that. It takes time, and runs the speed it needs to. It will come to the fruition you wish it to. Just be patient.

The most important principles

There are a number of different qualities that have no end of benefit if they are nurtured and placed at the centre of any sort of spiritual or philosophical practice. They are qualities that ensure that you keep yourself firmly rooted in the present moment and do not allow yourself to become overwhelmed with negative energies. To be of the utmost good to others, it is essential that you develop qualities that will stand you in good stead to be a sensitive and careful individual, grounded, but still reaching for your highest good and an improved physical and energetic perspective. You must always attempt to overcome any issue from your highest vantage point, allowing negativity to exist, and allowing it to be, but not taking it in or attaching it to you.

Energy can be present in many forms. It can be wispy like steam, or sticky and gooey like treacle. The denser an energy is, the closer it is to the lower frequencies. Anger, malice, revenge, sadness. All of these are denser energies, and as such they vibrate at a much lower frequency. As you become accustomed to working with and experiencing energy, you will recognise that if your energy is particularly “accelerated” it is much more difficult for lower, denser energy to become attached to you. Your higher, faster energy simply whisks the lower, slower energy away, speeding it up and changing it into another form. Anger, accelerated and evolved becomes  determination and thirst for a higher knowing.

With this in mind, it is always of benefit to cultivate qualities that will allow you to work towards these higher energies much more easily. These qualities are, Humility, Compassion, Patience and Grace.

As words themselves they are easy to define, at least from a dictionary definition. But to truly understand them, you must learn them for yourself.

Over the next few days we will be putting up a story to illustrate each of the qualities. We would ask that you also write a little something to illustrate each word. A simple thought, or if you are so inclined, a small image that you have found or created. A literal illustration.

We have deliberately not gone into the meaning of these words here, in an effort to get you to think for yourself what they mean. We will go into detail about each principle, why it is important and how you can nurture it within yourself. In the meantime, find the qualities for yourself, within yourself and explore them for yourself. One story can put across one lesson from one perspective. A thousand stories can put forth the same lesson in a thousand different ways.

Much Love to you